Women Make These 8 Mistakes In Relationships
You spent years looking for your Prince Charming. Many failed relationships later, you found a new love, yet you’re still making the same mistakes. Don’t you worry, we’ll tell you all about these mistakes to ensure you avoid repeating them and make sure you stop putting your relationship in jeopardy.
1. Projecting your future too fast
It’s been a few weeks since you started dating and already, you’re thinking about the name of your first child. Although love at first sight definitely exists, learn to not burn those essential first few months. Enjoy the love and passion of getting to know each other and live in the moment in order to avoid disappointment!
2. Criticize his friends
It doesn’t matter if they’re absolutely unbearable or just straight up idiots, you can’t criticize his friends. Remember that they were in his life first and if he cares for you, he will allocate time for both you and his friends. Know to take a step back and spend time with your friends when your boyfriend wants to spend time with his. Balance is key.
3. Being Possessive
Jealousy is a trait that can’t be controlled easily, especially if you’ve experienced difficulties with an ex. But, checking his phone or making him pass an interrogation will result in distance and an unsettled relationship between the two of you. Instead, establish some ground rules and remain honest with your partner. If they’re unfaithful, you should know that you deserve better.
4. Talking about your ex
Relationships prior to the one you’re in are a thing of the past! There’s no need to bring up stories of your exes or your partner’s ex. It’s never healthy to stir up things, but if you really must, decide to discuss this and move on once and for all!
5. Pretending that everything is fine
A little thing upset you the other day and you haven’t stopped thinking about it since. As a result, annoyances accumulate and one day you explode over something super random and silly. Rather than keeping everything to yourself, talk about what’s bothering you even if it sounds ridiculous. A calm discussion is better than a big argument full of unnecessary anger.
6. Trying to change him
This is something that most women will try. Of course, you can always ask him to put his dirty clothes in the laundry basket and lower the toilet seat, but you can’t change his character. Rather than tearing your hair out trying to change him, choose to accept his flaws or not be with him at all.
7. Making scenes in public
Try to channel your anger elsewhere and wait until you’re alone to discuss whatever is going on. Making a scene just makes both you and your partner uncomfortable and ultimately will lead to an even bigger fight.
8. Always saying no
You have a strong personality and you know what you want in life. Get it, girl! But, that’s likely who your partner is too. Try to make it so that you split your schedule between things you like and things he likes. Compromising will do you much better than saying no all the time just because you don’t like what he likes and vice versa. Being more flexible and understanding will bring so much peace to your relationship